Attitude Counts

The kind of attitude we have affects literally every aspect of our lives. Whether it's our work, social life, love life or health, our attitude plays a part in it all. When it comes to seducing a woman, attitude plays a very big role in how successful, or unsuccessful you are. If you have a positive attitude you're more likely to attract women more easily than a guy with a negative attitude. Being positive and upbeat shows in nearly everything you do, as does being negative and glum. Women are much more likely to choose the positive, upbeat guys. Let me take a little time to explain how attitude affects your success in attracting and seducing a woman.

First, a positive attitude reflects confidence and self respect. As we already discussed, confidence and self respect are vital. A positive attitude also directly affects how other people feel when they're around you. For example, have you ever had a friend or co-worker who was always down or pessimistic? If you have, did you notice that after a while his or her mood started making you feel down or uncomfortable or irritable? Chances are it's happened to all of them. So remember, if for no other reason than to not be a dark cloud hanging over everyone's head, try your best to be positive and have a good attitude.

But it goes much further than that. When you're trying to make your best impression on a woman, being negative will not work. You have to feel good before you can make anyone else feel good. You have to radiate the same kinds of feelings you want to receive. If you're not giving off those positive vibes women'll pick up on it and most likely steer clear of you.

As I mentioned earlier, your attitude affects all aspects of your life. If you have a negative attitude you're less likely to be successful in many things, including work. Women like to find a man who's stable. Part of what we judge stability on is your work. No, this doesn't mean you need to be a rocket scientist. It simply means that if you're changing jobs every couple of months, or getting let go for poor attitude or poor performance, which is directly affected by your attitude, then women are going to think twice before women get involved with you. Remember, women are looking for a partner; a 50 - 50 relationship.

There's another way that your attitude can affect your success with women. All people like to have emotional support in a relationship, but no one likes to be the sole provider of that emotional support. When women sense that a man has a negative attitude it makes them wonder if he's going to be emotionally needy. A sure way to nix any hope of seducing a woman is to be emotionally needy. It sets up a child-like image of you in her mind and will make it very difficult for her to see you as a seductive man.

Now this is not to say that women'll never be supportive of your emotional needs. Women like all aspects of their relationship with a man to be as equal as possible. And women are very willing to lend emotional support, just as women would expect it from you, too. There just needs to balance in your attitude. Everyone is entitled to have a bad day now and again. And having a bad day is not going to doom your chances at seducing them.

Having said all that, there is one more very important role that your attitude plays in the ultimate seduction of a woman. A good attitude is essential in communication. In order for anyone to communicate effectively there has to be a sound rapport between the parties communicating. If your attitude is too negative there won't be a good rapport between you and your lady. Without that rapport it will make it very difficult for any sort of meaningful conversations to take place. And conversation is so important in seduction.

Imagine that your relationship is moving along nicely. Then, for whatever reason your lady's attitude starts changing. All of a sudden she's not as cheerful as she used to be. You try to talk to her about it, but she clams up. After a while the conversations are few and far between. Then you start feeling down. From there it doesn't take very long before both of you are feeling miserable and things can start to fall apart very quickly. And as you can imagine, romance and seduction would be very unlikely when the two of you are feeling that way.

I'm sure you get the picture. Attitude plays a major role in relationships in all different stages. Whether you're still looking for the right woman, you're in a very new relationship, or you and your lady have been together for some time, a good attitude is essential in the overall success that you desire. People look to find someone whose own personality is going to complement their personality. If the woman you're looking for is naturally upbeat and outgoing she's not going to be likely to choose you if you're moody and negative.

Now let's take some time to examine what you can do if you feel that your attitude could use some improvement. First, you need to do a little soul-searching to figure out what it is that's causing you to feel negatively. Maybe you're not happy with your work. Or maybe it's the fact that you don't have that special someone to share your life with. Whatever the reason, dwelling on what you don't have or what's wrong will only serve to feed the negativity in your life. What you need to do is concentrate on what's good in your life and use that to build on. You can even use the list method I explained in an earlier tip to help you sort through things in your life. List all the things that are good first. And then list all the things that you'd like to change.

One important bit of advice, don't try to change everything at once. Set goals for yourself and work on them one by one. You might be surprised to find that working on one goal may just help you accomplish another one. Once you start to feel more positively things tend to fall into place quite nicely. And the positive attitude you'll develop is sure to make your life in general a whole lot more fulfilling.

So as you can see, a positive attitude can go a long way in a relationship and in seducing your woman. When you radiate positive energy you're sure to make a great impression on that special woman. She'll feel more comfortable and open when she's with you. Not to mention it will make her feel that you're secure and a good choice for a partner in life. And from there, you'll soon be on your way to enjoying the intimate connection that you'll be able to develop with her.

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