Meeting Women

We need reminding as much as we need educating

Read this book at least five or more times to become familiar with the content. I repeat critical concepts several times, but you should still re-read it several times over. Print the book out on paper and put it in a binder if you have to. Read it actively, which means to have a highlighter and a pen or pencil in your hand the whole time you're going through the book. Use post-it notes to mark areas of importance. Scribble comments in the margin. Be sure to keep a journal of your seduction...

Control Your Thinking

Having the self-discipline to control your thoughts is the core success factor in seduction. If you can't control your own thinking, you'll never be able to follow the Method long enough to get the results you seek. One of the biggest mistakes a guy typically makes, especially if he's not used to success with women, is that he will meet a woman, hit it off, and between that time and the next when they meet again, he'll be daydreaming and imagining all kinds of scenarios with her. He'll imagine...

The Denial or the Takeaway

Human beings always take things for granted. It's our nature to take all our possessions for granted after a while. Think of all the stuff you own that you once treasured, but now you treat just like everything else. Your car was once a novelty, but that got old, especially after the first few times you had to wax it or repair it. Your big-screen television was cool, too, but you don't think it's as great now as when you first bought it and played that first X-box game on it. There's a famous...

Charged Words

A seduction is a bubble of magical influence on a woman. In the game of seduction, you must master the art of using charged words to convey your meaning and to drive her forward. You do not speak in words that other men use habitually and lazily. You must learn to choose your words, as well as speak them with a seductive rhythm. Injecting your conversation with charged words works on two levels. Her conscious mind will recognize that you have a poetic and romantic affect on her. Eloquence with...

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The G-spot, Here it Comes, and The Approaches originally published at Dating Insider. Some sections revised and reprinted with permission from Dating Dynamics. The only life worth living is the adventurous life. Of such a life the dominant characteristic is that it is unafraid. It is unafraid of what other people think It does not adapt either its pace or its objectives to the pace and objectives of its neighbors. It thinks its own thoughts, it reads its own books, it develops its own hobbies,...

Busting the Myth of Speed Seduction

You may be familiar with the concept of speed seduction and what these techniques claim to be able to do. You will find a lot of hucksters out there who are looking to make a quick buck off you, selling you what they call speed seduction programs and e-books. In reality, these programs are a collection of hypnotic techniques that would only work on a woman with the intelligence of a mentally handicapped child. Speed seduction promises one thing To appeal to a man's desire to get free and easy...

Helpful Warning

You are fighting a battle for control of your thoughts. We live in a decidedly female-centric society. I know, you're all slapping your foreheads and saying, But men are the violent ones Men are the cause of all the problems. They beat their wives They start wars And women still earn less money Truth check Statistics and studies (dating back to at least 1978 - See Dr. Suzanne Steinmetz) indicate that men are abused at least as much as women. Perhaps more, since men are afraid of the...

Seduction Psychology

There are some critical concepts you must understand when you set out to seduce women, and they relate to some universal human needs and behaviors. I'm explaining these with the assumption that knowledge of them could be abused, but that you would never use them to manipulate or coerce a woman. These principles will help you see how you react to women, as well as how they react to you. Nothing will burn you out quicker than trying to go too far with women too fast, and feeling like the process...

Principle Psychological Posture

Posture is another term from sales and other psychological studies. I'm not referring to your physical slouching sit up straight , per se. Posture is a very generic term for your overall social presence. It is, when all is said and done, the impression left behind with people after they've experienced you, and it also encompasses your ability to command respect in those you meet. When I say you should have posture, I mean that you need to have the ability to present yourself on at least equal...

Dominant and Submissive

There are two kinds of men in the world Dominant and Submissive. In order to seduce women effectively, you must be a dominant man. Dominant behavior signals confidence to her, as well as to her subconscious attraction mechanism. Here are the characteristics so that you are completely aware of the difference Pursues his desires and takes action quickly Displays ambivalence, an uncertainty or inability to make up his mind Displays very little confidence These Dominant traits are what a woman both...

Handling Setbacks During the Method

You will run into roadblocks along the way to your goal. It's as certain as the snap on her bra that you'll have a few moments of discomfort and uncertainty. A lot of guys run up against this barrier (what I call a pain threshold) and back away because they don't know how to handle it. The first time you get a few steps closer to a woman, and then she backs off when you crack a joke that she doesn't take too well, you'll feel panic hit you square in the gut. Most guys scramble to save face,...

Seduction Strategy Have a Wingman

If you've seen the movies Top Gun or Pearl Harbor, you probably know what the concept of a wingman is in aerial combat. You have someone you can trust to cover your tail in any situation, and to assist each other along the way. It's also a sound strategy to have in singles combat, too. There are numerous benefits to having one or more guys with you that can assist in your seduction situations. Here are just a few Watch my six Most women do not go out alone. They usually have at least one friend...

Kino or Kinesthetics

Here are some definitions that you will find helpful in understanding how to use Kino in your seduction kinaesthesia (n) 1 the perception of body position and movement and muscular tensions etc. 2 the ability to feel movements of the limbs and body kino (n) 1 The use of touch to arouse physical and emotional desire. First of all, consider what kind of person you are. Are you reserved Do you enjoy touching other people Touching yourself This is something to determine so that you know what you...

The Forbidden Zone of Pleasure

There's an area of a woman's body that is a secret erogenous zone, and there are a lot of guys who still haven't discovered it, or know how to use it. The place I'm talking about is a woman's anus. There are bunches of nerve endings in the rectum, making it a prime target for sexual stimulation. There is even a theory that a woman is sexually aroused by practically any kind of stimulation in a zone around her genitalia. Adding a little erotic attention in her backside can reap you a whopper of...

Seduction Strategy The Philosophy of Handling and Overcoming Blocks to the Seduction

To be successful you must stay aware. Don't ignore warning signs, or bluster onward without addressing problems as they arise. These will only grow into a seduction time bomb. When you see an obstacle, recognize whether or not it will stop you from sleeping with her. If so, decide if it is something you can overcome (and with knowledge, almost all objections can) and then decide whether it is worth your effort. Then, confront the obstacle and overcome it. If you ignore a real obstacle in your...

Never ever insult her

Remember that your purpose in teasing and busting her balls is to take her mind off of having to trust you. If she's busy proving herself to you, she doesn't need to figure out if she can trust you. In fact, she will automatically start to trust you if you can avoid appearing like a person who needs to be trusted. You simply bypass her defenses by ignoring them and driving right by them. (If she doesn't let you bypass her trust concerns, however, because of some specific fears, you may have to...

Body Language

Your overall physical presence is incredibly important for attracting a woman and getting her excited enough to go to bed with you. Your outside life reflects your internal life. People know this subconsciously they don't realize it with their thinking portion of their brain. So you must pay attention to the details that will convince her that she wants to sleep with you. Over ninety percent of a message between two people is communicated by nonverbal methods. This means the tone of your voice,...

Read Her Mind By Reading Her Body Language

Contrary to popular belief, it is not very difficult to read minds. You simply need to pay attention to another person. Attune your perception to their mannerisms and body language and you can tell a great deal about what a person is thinking and feeling. One critical skill to have as you work with each woman is the ability to read what her body is telling you about her thoughts. Some people have developed an intuitive feel for this, and once you've practiced you'll just get a vibe from some...

Things to Avoid Talking About

- Any subject that puts you down, or makes fun of you or your weaknesses. Don't joke or make fun of yourself or your looks with her because it will look as if you're looking to get sex from her out of pity. This will repel her right away, guaranteed. The only way you can pull this kind of joke off is if you make it clear that you're being sarcastic about your looks. I suggest you avoid any self-deprecation. I usually joke with women in the other direction. When I have a sunburn or a pimple,...

The Seduction Types

Part of your Sharpening is to be able to recognize types. Now, I don't like to generalize, but in reality, we need shortcuts to help us sort and apply rules when we encounter certain kinds of women. Women come in all different sizes, flavors, and colors. You probably already know your physical type, but do you know how to handle women's personality types to maximize your seduction effectiveness The following women are the various types you'll encounter, and I'll give you some information on...

Seduction Strategy Seduction is a Billiards Game

I'm sure most guys out there have played pool at one time or another. (Some people call it billiards.) If you remember back when you first started playing pool, you didn't have the skill to do trick shots or anything cool you just wanted to be able to hit a shot in that you intended to make. Once you got to the point where you could plan and aim one shot, and you could put the balls in the pockets consistently, you realized that there was a new strategy you had to learn After this next shot is...

Seduction Strategy Social Proof

Social proof is the concept that when a man (or even an idea) is validated by the acceptance of other people, other women will find him acceptable. If we see other people doing something, we accept it as appropriate. This has been proven numerous times in studies of how people react to events. You are much more likely to go along with something if you observe that others have done it, even if there is a question in your mind as to whether it is right or wrong. The most obvious form of social...

The Other Man Woman

One of the trickier situations to work through is if a woman knows you're seeing another woman, or if you know she's seeing another man. Both can be overcome, though, and here's how For the target that is aware of your interest in another woman, even if the other woman is only short-term, you need to make sure never to discuss or validate her with your target. The point in seduction is to get your target wanting you so badly that she doesn't even care if you're gay. Get the target's desire...

Premature Ejaculation

The average man ejaculates after about 3 to 4 minutes of constant rapid thrusting. There are a lot of men who come much quicker than this - usually within the first minute. As I stated before, a woman almost always takes longer than a man to reach orgasm, so just because you came first doesn't mean you are a premature ejaculator. After all, you can only hold off for so long. If, however, you are coming much too early and have no control, there are many techniques to extend the duration of your...

Communication

Communication is essential when sleeping with a woman. She needs to feel as though she is being cared for, and it's your obligation to fulfill that need. Yes, this means you have to talk to her. Now, most men don't feel comfortable talking to women about sex. They usually feel that doing is enough, and they have the doing part taken care of. The reality here is that a woman is going to be more turned on by your ability to communicate about her pleasure than by most of the things you will...

Battle is a highly fluid situation You plan on your contingencies and I have You keep your initiatives and I will One

You must stay fluid with your approach. Plan for contingencies, but do not give up your ability to keep the initiative. And never share command this means with the woman. You cannot entrust the success of your seduction in the target's hands. You are the only one who can guide the entrancement - the Seduction - to its inevitable conclusion getting her into bed. Let's be clear again You are not taking her anywhere she wouldn't go willingly. But you must be the one...

Seduction Rule The Fickle Factor

In all seductions, you must realize that there is always an unpredictable element that can jump in at any point in the game and kill your seduction. I call this the Fickle Factor. There's nothing you can do about it when it strikes. (It lies outside your sphere of influence and control.) It typically shows up when you sense a woman is weirding out on you. Bill had been talking with Rosalia for an hour. He met her while shopping at a local electronics store where she was looking for a new...

Seduction Rule Sunk Cost

A competent seducer also knows when to give up on a target. The rule of Sunk Cost says that no matter how much you may have invested in a seduction, if you decide that the probability for success is low, you must back off and let it go. You can't recover any of your lost energy. You will only be throwing more valuable time away if you keep pursuing where you don't have potential. One of the most important reasons you need to be able to stop and redirect your energies is that if you chase too...

Principle The Phases Of Becoming A Seduction Master

Excitement Phase Males

Here are the simple steps to becoming a master of seduction. This is the overview of The Seduction Method, but not the specific process of the Method itself. We'll go into detail of the actual process of seduction in the next section. 1) Prepare for seduction Be the kind of man who seduces women. Have your world prepared, from your thinking to your physical world. 2) Target and interact with seduction targets Get out of the bleachers and out on the field. Get in the game. Take each seduction to...

Let Her Think Its Her Idea

Another essential strategy you must use is letting the woman think that the things you want are her idea. If she thinks you're the one asking her back to your house, she's going to have a cognitive guard up, making her wonder What's he after On the other hand, if she thinks you're just speaking what she's already thinking, (perhaps things she would never actually say, like Let's go back to my place) she's much more likely to go along with you. You're just opening the gate to the road in front...

What Worked

First of all, I won't kid you - Mark had an advantage going into this situation. Betty and Mark had had previous interactions with each other, which let him work a little of the Seduction Method in advance. But on the other hand, she was very familiar with Mark, and that also worked against him. This also shows an example of how you can take a situation where a woman is already familiar with you and turn it into an opportunity for seduction, even if it's a couple months down the road. Challenge...

Seduction Strategy Get a

This may sound like a strange seduction strategy, but one of the best things you can do to improve your sex life is get a dog, if it's within your lifestyle and means. (You can have a cat or some other pet, but a dog is the best companion for guys that I've found.) If you have a pet that you can care for and dote upon, you will have an emotional cushion to help you through the dry periods. The value of their companionship will offload a little of the urgency men tend to put on their...

Principle Line Them Up and Knock Them Down

The best seducer knows that going after one-night stands is exhausting and frustrating. You'll probably burn yourself out faster than a NASCAR racing engine at redline if you keep that up for long. The best strategy is the waterfall technique. To explain this, here is a graph of your seduction work during a twelve day period Pre-work using The Seduction Method Seduction Success Seduction Ended Pre-work using The Seduction Method Seduction Success Seduction Ended If you let each column of the...

The Myth of the Pickup Artist and The Player

We let a lot of terms enter our vocabulary without ever really questioning them. Have you ever asked yourself what a Pick-up artist is I hear about picking up women all the time, as if you drive around in a beat up Dodge truck, looking for lonely lost women to throw in the back. Pick-up artist is a term that is known only by its connotation in slang A stranger with whom casual acquaintance is made, usually in anticipation of sexual relations. Interesting. Isn't that the reason all men and women...

Control the Conversation

All too often, most men lose their target because of their inability to keep the conversation with a woman on track. They lose sight of their goal because they get caught up in the minute-to-minute chit-chat rather than remembering their objective. Do you know how to handle conversation effectively You'll have to if you want to be able to seduce women. The key to handling conversation and controlling the dialogue is not so much about controlling her as it is controlling the dynamic of affection...

Heat Up The Conversation

Make sure you're building the depth and intensity of your conversation as you go. You want to keep moving the topics forward from the initial getting to know you stuff to the seriously hot and erotic. If you keep talking to her on the level of a friend, that's all her mind is going to be able to associate with you. Your Progression must start with how she's relating to you. 1) Describe everything in terms of sex. If you start talking to her about your job, start discussing it in terms of the...

The Depressed Chick

She's ready to open a vein at the first sign of things not going her way. She is a pessimist in the worst way, and she sucks the life force from every living thing in her immediate vicinity. You'd swear you'd seen her killed off in an old X-files episode, but no, here she is, ready to make your life a living hell. She's managed to avoid every pleasurable experience this side of breathing. You can easily get pulled down into her well of discontent. Beware her tendency...

So Who IS This Carlos

There are a lot of books out there written by people who observe and watch, but never do. This is especially true of the seduction systems you see out there on the market. I've read plenty of them, and I'm very sure that most of these guys have dabbled a little with their techniques, but not lived them. In fact, most of the books you get in the self-help sections seem to be written by people who have success in only two things meditation, and getting their book published. If you've seen the...

Mutual Masturbation

Warming up to the main event, you can't have more fun than this. Sometimes, when a woman isn't ready for sex as quickly as you want, you can still have some sexual fun with lower risk for her. Hey, I know a hand-job isn't the most thrilling, but it can open doors into more sex later on. One of the ways you can take advantage of this as a proving ground is to show her you know how to use your fingers. If you can get her excited enough, she may be willing to go the rest of the way with you. Here...

She wants you because of behaviors that you exhibit that arouse her interest excitement and attraction at a primal level

It's your job to be on good behavior, demonstrate these attraction qualities, and stay just far enough away that it gives her room to take action on her attraction. This doesn't mean she'll be hunting you down and begging you for sex (although in some cases, when you get really good, this will happen in a seduction). You're still responsible for initiating and taking action, but she will now be in a place where those advances are hoped for and welcome, and she'll seize them when you put them in...

You see seduction is nothing more than a highly charged emotionally persuasive sales job

Women want exactly the same things you do sexual experience, unchained from all the repression and guilt. They want to sleep with you and enjoy physical pleasure. They just have different social, psychological, and instinctual expectations. We will explore these in this book, as well as discuss the methods of overcoming them so that you both can get what you want. Here's how we're going to learn The Seduction Method o How to prepare for seduction - what to think, wear, and have to be ready o...

How Do You Stimulate The GSpot

Well, there are typically three ways With your fingers, with a toy, or with your wanker. From experience, you should first try to use your fingers first. You need to familiarize yourself with her geography, finding the exact location. The best motions to use are small, slow circles, or slow back-and-forth rubbing. Sometimes a little pressure with your fingertip is enough. When you've found it, you're in the zone, baby. You're free to employ the use of dildos and other helpers, but I highly...

The Seduction Method Approaches

You're about to enter section covering engagement approaches for most of the situations you will encounter in the wild single's jungle. What we're going to cover here is a simulation of the situations where you're most likely to encounter with a woman, and how to begin your seduction. Each situation will be explained, as well as your likely goals given the circumstances, the approaches, and the dangers of each. Where it is relevant, I'll slip you some details to help you properly address your...

A woman convinced against her will is of the same opinion still

If it's more important to you to establish a superior standing by being right, you will alienate women - guaranteed. If, on the other hand, you are willing to sit back and let her think she's right (even when everyone can see she's not), then you will be infinitely more successful as a seducer. It's easy to get caught up in a clash with a woman's ego. I once dated a Russian girl who was gorgeous. Her only major fault was that she had an ego bigger than the national debt. I'd met some...

Principle Scarcity and Appreciation

Human beings appreciate what is rare. Diamonds are worth money because they are relatively scarce. Paintings by dead artists are valuable because there will never be any more painted by that person there is a fixed quantity of their work available. In essence We are hard-wired to want what we cannot have. Another important part of scarcity is the perception of scarcity. If you have to work hard to get something, it is appreciated more. Simply because, if you can't get it easily it must be rare...

The Cycle of Opportunity

There is a cycle of her emotional state, and catching her in the right place is an essential part of your seduction strategy. If you catch her in a down-cycle - where her emotions are a bit low and she's not able to play with you - you run the risk of either wasting your time on someone who's emotionally preoccupied or too vulnerable. Most often, a seduction will fail here as you get near the point of complete submission, only to have her crying in your arms over her issues and problems. On the...

Phone Numbers and Email Addresses

There are some rules for seduction etiquette when it comes to getting phone numbers and email addresses. First of all, asking for a woman's email address (and in this day and age, just about everybody has one) can be a lot less intimidating for her to give you than her phone number. Ideally, you should get both, but an email address is a bare minimum. Never write her number down on any piece of paper that has another woman's address or phone number on it. Don't carry around a black book and...

Seduction Strategy Recovery Excuse Yourself And Try Again

As I think I've told you about a hundred times now, it's always best to go as slow as necessary to never wake the sleeping guard dogs in her mind. You don't want to break the illusion of seduction you are creating. However, when you do make a mistake, or if you push her too far, too fast, you need an effective strategy to recover. The best way to do this is to do the following First of all, don't seem too apologetic. You don't want her thinking you are calculating this too much, nor do you want...

Grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change Courage to change the things I can and the Wisdom to know

The fortunate (and unfortunate) part of this prayer is that the responsibility for finding the courage is still up to you. You have to be willing to go out and change those things to make a difference. I get in heated debates with many people (men and women) over these concepts, and it is usually because they are fighting these principles with their rational minds. They believe in the way things should be, not the way things really are. o Relationships should be built on trust They imagine this...

Seduction Strategy The Name Test

One of the quickest and easiest tests you can use in your approaches with women is called the Name Test. What you do is, after you've found your teasing introduction and gotten her attention, ask her what her name is - but what you do not do is tell her your name. What you're looking for is her to ask you what your name is. This is a test for interest from her, and it will help you get right to the important question Is she really interested in you at all This will take some restraint on your...