Every single guy I know who has improved his game with women has shirked off that bitter, whining attitude (that he can't get success because of this or that) and he just goes and DOES IT ANYWAY.
Remember that scene in "Apollo 13" where Ed Harris talks about the situation with the astronauts out of control and their ship crippled in space, and he says, "Failure is not an option!" There was no place in their decision path that would allow them to throw their hands up and say, "Sorry! Can't do it. Those guys are just going to have to die up there."
That's so essential. You can't give yourself the option of failure, or you will probably take it somewhere along the way.
There is always a reason that you're not getting the success you want with women, and there is always a solution. Tune in with me on this, and listen hard:
The only people who fail in this world are those who fail to persevere. There are plenty of guys who want to find this mystical magical combination of words that will "GET A WOMAN IN BED WITH YOU, NOW!"
It doesn't exist, guys. It's what they used to call Snake Oil, a remedy that doesn't exist. I won't ever promise that sort of thing to you because even though it might sell a few more copies of my book, it isn't true. And I won't lie to you. I've been out there long enough to know that there is NO magic bullet to bring down every target you set your eyes on. It's wishful thinking created for you by guys who want you to believe that you can turn your natural male desire to have sex with a woman that you find visually attractive into immediate gratification of that thought.
However, I'm here to tell you that you can have almost any woman you want. But you're going to have to learn and practice a hell of a lot more. It's not instantaneous. And there are no "six magic words" out there that are going to change that.
The great secret that you're all looking for is already in front of you:
ANY method will work, if you really use it and work it. (And it's not as hard as you might imagine.)
Failure will NOT be an option.
If you employ these principles, and make a woman feel good about herself (and you) through these seduction principles, you will be more successful.
What I already told you: You have to really use it and work it. No half-assed attempts. No read-once and hit the casinos like James Bond. Read this book several times, develop your attitude and charm, and use this power. When you understand the principles, you are then free to carry that attitude into your dating life.
No more "I'd just like to be friends."
No more "Hey, you're nice and all, but sort of seeing this other guy."
No more "I don't have a phone right now. Let me call you instead."
If you learn the skills and perform the effort, you will bring her down. Feel the thrill of the chase. Reach into the primitive caveman inside you that loved the challenge of the hunt and the kill, and let that drive you forward.
No great success came to those who merely watch and wait, or look for a shortcut that they know doesn't exist. It's easy to lose oneself in the quest for the quick and easy, and then use that as your excuse for not having planted your stake in the ground and got to work.
"Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan, 'Press on,' has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race."
- Calvin Coolidge
This may sound like a shameless plug, but if you really want to pick this information up quickly and get good at seduction, get a couple of your friends to buy The Seduction Method program as well, train them as wingmen, and start practicing this stuff every week. The more you do it with other guys and compare your notes on what worked and what didn't, the more you'll be on the fast track to success. You can go it alone, but it's ten times easier to do it with a group of guys who can serve as a support group for you along the way. Seduction is a lonely occupation at times, and you can use all the help you can get. Remember the Beatles': "I get by with a little help from my friends."
Remember: Your belief system is constantly looking to validate your assumptions. You will see whatever you want to see that reinforces your previous judgment.
Question those assumptions.
Congratulations. You've just graduated from this program. Now get to work.
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