In order to seduce effectively you must do one thing exceptionally well You must find what it is that your target lacks and fulfill that need

We all have something missing inside us, and it is usually the one thing we look to fill through the involvement of someone of the opposite sex. Your ability to discover what this lack is and use it to your advantage is essential.

Take for instance the woman who has lost her father at an early age, whether through divorce or death. A great number of these women will then look for a replacement for him, often falling into the arms of responsible, capable men who serve as father figures to them. Another woman might have been brought up as a middle child in a family where she had to fight to get her parent's attention, and she still seeks attention to this day as a form of validation, something she never got as a kid.

(By the way, one of the best things you can do is to find out where she stands in the birth order of her family - youngest, middle, oldest, only child, etc. This will determine a great deal about her personality.)

Through exploration with dialogue, you can find these secrets and work to use them to both your advantage. You do this not to take advantage of her, but to satisfy you both.

To find out these holes or gaps in her life, you can ask her questions, such as:

o "Were you most influenced by your mother or your father when you were younger? Why?"

o "If you could change one thing about your life right now, what would it be? Why?"

o "What are you most satisfied with in your job right now? Why?"

o "If money weren't any object, what would you do for a living? Why?"

o "What hobby do you have that gives you the most satisfaction? Why?"

The most important part of this questioning is the open ended 'why' that you have to add to each of them. This gets her talking and telling you all the details that you need. Listen to her responses very carefully, because they will tell you all you need to know about her zones of emptiness. You must use those areas as your targets, so you can fill this gap and connect with her. It's a bit like choosing the right puzzle piece to snap together with hers. If you don't find the right size, you'll end up with a sloppy match. If you get the right size piece, however, you can bond and make her feel like you were both "meant to be."

I'll show you how to take these questions to a deeper level later on when we learn more about the power of creating and inducing states in her.

Keep in mind that there is a reverse danger in this situation, and this hazard is that you also have some lack in you that will make you easily seduced by a certain kind of woman. You should take a long look at your history and see what this gap might be, because it will be your vulnerability.

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Seduction Secrets

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