Principle Line Them Up and Knock Them Down

The best seducer knows that going after one-night stands is exhausting and frustrating. You'll probably burn yourself out faster than a NASCAR racing engine at redline if you keep that up for long. The best strategy is the "waterfall" technique. To explain this, here is a graph of your seduction work during a twelve day period:

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Day 4

Day 5

Day 6

Day 7

Day 8

Day 9

Day 10

Day 11

Day 12

Lady 1

Lady 2

Lady 3

Lady 4

Lady 5

Lady 6

Lady 7

Lady 8

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Day 4

Day 5

Day 6

Day 7

Day 8

Day 9

Day 10

Day 11

Day 12

Seduction Pattern:

= Pre-work using The Seduction Method

= Seduction Success = Seduction Ended

= Pre-work using The Seduction Method

= Seduction Success = Seduction Ended

If you let each column of the seduction attempts for each woman "waterfall" down to the bottom, where it shows the overall seduction pattern, you've got consistent success along the way. This takes into consideration that some women have a longer Delay Time than others, as well as the women who might come back into your life, like Lady 7. Some will keep on burning hot and long, and others will just fizzle out. None of it means anything if you can look at the big picture of your seduction strategy. Line them up, and then knock them down. You have no way of knowing in advance which ones will be interested in what you have to offer, so you can only be consistent in elevating their arousal when you're with them, and moving progressively forward at each step.

The waterfall principle also works on another level, and you should be able to use this in your seduction method as well. When you use a lot of different methods to meet women, you'll find that you will build a pipeline of prospects. Some guys stick with just one method of meeting women - the one they're most comfortable with. But you need to use many to increase your success. It's the same as it is in sales. You work from several different prospecting pools and you will see your success rate increase. The more people you see, the more you sell. The more women you meet, the more sex you will get.

Tap into as many methods of meeting women as you can work. Go wide and go deep, as the saying goes. Here are just a few of the possible methods of meeting women you can use in your method:

o Singles bars o Dance clubs o Personals (newspaper)

o Online personals o Online dating services o On the street o At work o In classes o At the gym o While shopping o On the train/bus/at the bus stop o At the coffee shop/restaurant/video store o In lines o On vacations o Dance classes o Events/parties o ANYWHERE YOU SEE A WOMAN!

I emphasize that last one, because all too often guys put blinders on when it comes to the women they pass by every day. Don't ignore the possibilities offered by the places you may not be used to. Stretch out and think of ways to approach them (and I'll show you some methods in a later section for approaches in various environments).

Make sure you get online as soon as you can and setup an account with an Internet dating service. It used to be that only guys used them, but now women are using them like never before. This is one of the best ways to meet women, and more and more women are joining every day. You can practice a lot of your skills in a short period of time. And, you get to learn about her before you even meet her. Online chats are also another way to practice your conversation ability with a woman, and it will lower your intimidation when it comes time to actually meet more women in person.

PRINCIPLE: Defensive Shields

Women come with a set of pre-programmed defensive shields (yes, just like on Star Trek, for the geeks out there like me) that must be brought down if you are to get into her heart. Or, ahem, into other areas.

A woman's first consideration is a worry about physical safety and freedom from harm, as I've stated. She also worries about emotional safety: 0 _

Defenses are inherent in everyone. We all interact on a certain level of defense - defending others from the chinks and tarnish in our armor of self-esteem. You see this most vividly when people interact in a business setting and egos start to come into play.

Work through your challenges to the goal...

I've found that the best way to overcome the defensive shield posture is to learn how to genuinely look at things from another person's perspective, putting your ego aside to really see things another way. This takes a lot of work on your self-esteem so that you can abandon your need to impress others or defend your position. It's not easy, but it is the only true cure for the issues that come up in almost all seductions. You'll be able to see the "why" for almost any situation when you can put aside your own feelings and dented ego armor.

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