So Who IS This Carlos

There are a lot of books out there written by people who observe and watch, but never do. This is especially true of the seduction systems you see out there on the market. I've read plenty of them, and I'm very sure that most of these guys have dabbled a little with their techniques, but not lived them.

In fact, most of the books you get in the self-help sections seem to be written by people who have success in only two things: meditation, and getting their book published. If you've seen the pictures and the biographies of the authors of most of the relationship books in particular, you know that they are just as messed up as the rest of us. (One particularly famous author has been married in excess of five times, and is close to being a certifiable basket case.)

And none of them have any experience in seduction.

Observation is good, and essential. Most of the great realizations come from observation and seeing what others are doing that works, and then having the ability to write it down in a way that others can understand and use. I, however, do both. I observe and perform to learn what does and doesn't work.

Christian De Meco (from Dating Dynamics, our affiliate) has a wonderful saying that he uses as an example of how to get your information in life:

"I had this guy I used to work with back in the financial services business. He always used to say that when he wanted financial advice, he went to the guy with the pile of money that was bigger than his, not some down-and-out stockbroker picking his stocks out of a hat. If you want to learn how to do something, go to someone who is doing what you want to do."

I believe in that advice, too. You just can't watch the game from the sidelines and be what they call a Monday-morning quarterback, the guy that thinks he knows everything about the game, but has never gone out there on the field and played it. You need to jump in there and get dirty. As a character in the movie "The Rock" says, "Sir, we've spilled the same blood in the same mud."

Let me give you a little of my own background, and you be the judge of how reputable I am as a source. I first got laid when I was 12 years old. I know, it sounds kind of perverted, but not really. I discovered early on that I had an understanding of girls. I had a very active and interesting teenage life, and I was privileged enough to have dated and slept with some amazing partners along the way.

When I got to my early twenties, I even had a few of what some people call long-term relationships. Mixed in-between was a lot of seduction, but I had no idea what I was doing. It was mostly luck and ignorance. Somewhere in my mid-twenties I started to slow down and think about what it was that had created this success I was having. When I started analyzing, I started having more gaps without sex, but much more insight as I figured out what the secret was to attracting and sleeping with women. From average to beautiful.

Then, I had my epiphany, or great revelation. It came when I was dating women from the personal ads in Kansas City. I had met this cute art student who was doing creative landscaping for people's homes in the area. We had gone out one night for some drinks and had a good time. We came back to my apartment, and we were drinking some beer and talking when I had this insight. It was an "a-ha!" moment that I'll never forget.

All this time I'd been working on what I was doing to attract and interest women, or how I was doing it. What I was failing to see was what my underlying attitude was in these situations.

Invariably, I found that these things were consistent about the failures:

o Too "nice" - Made a lot of compliments, a lot of flattery o Went on "dates" - Took women to movies and dinners o Too needy - I acted like I wanted and needed their approval o Waited for signals from her before acting and moving forward (no risking on my part)

And this was what was consistent about the successes: o Used a lot of humor o Teasing and making fun of her - treating her like a pesky brat o Behaved like I didn't need her - very independently o Moved in aggressively with every woman - regardless of what I thought her interest was o Acted very arrogant and cocky

When I looked at Lori the Art Cutie, I suddenly understood what to do.

I put down my beer and asked her, point blank, "Are you attracted to me?" (And my tone said that I couldn't care less what she said.)

She looked at me, a little shocked, and simply said, "Yes."

Right then and there, I had flipped the switch on to my understanding of how seduction really works with women, and it has nothing to do with being a wonderful man. It has everything with being a man who decides what he wants and goes after it. Without needing it.

It was in the attitude.

Later that night, Lori and I enjoyed some skinny-dipping at the pool in the courtyard of my apartments, as well as hours of tear-up-the-sheets sex.

Since then, (and this is not bragging) I've slept with scores of women, and built on that fundamental understanding. I established a new belief system regarding women, and I'm about to share with you the understanding here, in great detail. The Seduction Method is built on this knowledge, so that you don't have to struggle to enjoy success with women.

Why am I sharing this information?

First of all, because I don't stand to gain by keeping it a secret. Other men deserve to know what it takes to seduce women. They also need to know that it doesn't take good looks, a hot car, or lots of money to do it. If you are able to understand these principles, and I guarantee you will, you can make these strategies work in your life, too.

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