A woman has to know there are limits, and that she can't just keep playing the same game over and over, because that would be boring. You have to change the rules of the game in the middle. If you said you'd tell her about what your friend said about her if she gives you a soulful kiss, you can always hold the information back a little longer. "Hey!" she yells. "You said you'd tell me if I kissed you!" You say, "I changed the rules. Man's prerogative."
Be careful how you do this so that it doesn't seem like you're backing out on a promise. Sometimes a promise is implied without saying the word "promise."
The way this works best is when you get into a back-and-forth teasing each other, and you sense that she's starting to feel like she's controlling you by keeping up the teasing. All of a sudden you just smile at her and end the match by saying, "Ooh, I like it when you get all hot for me like that." Don't let her setup the pattern. If she can predict it, she'll get bored.
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