Consistency and Inconsistency Testing

Women will test you to find out your limitations. It's a fact. She will push your buttons to see how you react, because she wants to know if you're really an Alpha Man, or one of those phony guys she meets all the time. Your job, as an Alpha, is to pass her tests when she gives them to you.

One of the most common tests that women will put you through is the "running hot and cold" test. This is where she will suddenly change her attitude towards you, sometimes in the same evening. One minute she's all flirty and sexy, the next minute she's a cold fish.

It's in these circumstances that you must be consistent with your attention. You see, the test she's giving you is whether you will REACT to her change in tone. Most guys will either become cold in response to her coldness, or they'll come on even stronger hoping to warm her up. You have to keep treating her the same, almost as if you don't see any change at all, and that if you do, you're not going to let it affect you. Don't act like you're ignoring her, but act as if her attitude is not going to impact yours.

You must lean back and breathe, realizing that her sudden change of attitude is not your fault, and it does not mean that she doesn't like you anymore. She's just subconsciously testing her hold on you. This is when you must be the most consistent with your attention. What she's looking for is your reaction to her, which tells her that you are easily manipulated by her mood or behavior. If you react, she knows you are not an Alpha Man.

Now, the time that you must do the opposite and be adventurous is when she's being consistent. That's when you can be inconsistent, just a little. This will have the same affect on her that it would have on you. It's like revoking approval, and she'll want to get it back. Reward her when she gives you the right attitude.

The moral of the story is this:

When she's most inconsistent in her mood, you must be consistent with your treatment. You are unflappable. Keep up the same attitude and do not acknowledge her change. (Unless she is obviously disrespectful, in which case you must put her in her place, even if that means blowing her out of your reality. Disrespect is totally unacceptable.)

And when she's most consistent in her mood, you must be inconsistent with your treatment, just so that she's not sure where she stands with you. Do not be psychotic or

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act crazy, going from one extreme to the other, but don't be afraid to ignore her a little and be aloof or cold.

The cold shoulder test will come up, and you must be prepared. This is the most common of her tests, also.

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