A man who has been held down to a lower status for a long time, or faced the brutal frustration of being at the mercy of other people's power for too long, will inevitably find it difficult to attract women. His attitude will reflect the years of abuse his male ego has taken, and a woman will sense this on him like rancid cologne.
A man must find a place of power in his life or he will die inside. It's an essential element of healthy male functioning that cannot be ignored.
You must find a place in your life where you can exert your own personal power.
Many guys will never wind up managing a group of people, whether for lack of skills, or a lack of interest in the process of management. However, there is a lot to be learned from books on ethics-based management principles, because they show you most clearly what it takes to be a leader through the use of the right means. Stephen Covey's famous book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People illustrates this with principles that speak to the core of effective self-management.
I urge you to study the great leaders in history and find out what made them so effective. Great men such as Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln, Che Gueverra, Ghandi, and so many others had many effective habits and behaviors of their own that brought them to positions of power and positive influence. Even tyrants such as Stalin and Hitler used many of their charismatic traits to rise to power and influence.
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You have found a good girl. She's cute, sexy, sweet, caring, funny, faithful... and best of all, she's into you. You've done good! And, your friends are all jealous. Maybe you used some of the powerful attraction and seduction tips from our other reports. Or maybe you're just a natural. Either way, you're happy.