Organic Problem Solving

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The most advanced form of problem solving is the ability to think through to a solution for a situation that is changing every minute. This is called a "fluid" situation in military terminology, one where the parameters for strategic victory are given, but the tactics that are used can change from moment to moment. The definition of "victory" may even change.

Does this sound familiar? It should. This is what it is to encounter women on the battlefield of dating and seduction.

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You need

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be able to think on your feet.

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You need

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be alert to changing conditions and environmental

variables.

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You need

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modify your approach to meet these challenges.

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You need

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control frustration in order to get to the goal.

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You need

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be able to detach yourself from emotions to look at

your mistakes and failures with an objective eye. (Emotions also get in the way of your willingness to try again after an error.)

your mistakes and failures with an objective eye. (Emotions also get in the way of your willingness to try again after an error.)

These last two really test your emotional intelligence.

The best way to learn this skill is the only good way - through experience. Engage on the battlefield and learn every step of the way. In this kind of practice there is no defeat, only learning. You have to be hungry for the knowledge you gain through the experience.

This comes up frequently for me in martial arts instruction, when I find I have to deal with a new person and their particular way of learning. When you come to an obstacle, like trying to figure out how to train them for a certain foot or fist position, it's a new challenge every time. And the same person will often learn in different ways at different times.

This is what it's like when you're out with women and trying to keep up with the dynamics of the situation. You have to train yourself to think from a certain perspective (Dominant Alpha Man) so that when you're presented with challenges (her tests and questions) you know how to respond.

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Here's an example of non-organic problem solving:

HER: "Are you a player?"

(She loses interest and moves on, or keeps testing him.)

The next time, he does the same thing all over again. He doesn't understand why women lose interest in him when he's just telling them the truth. Women are so hard to understand. What do they want?

And here's an example of organic problem solving:

HER: "Are you a player?"

(She loses interest and moves on, or keeps testing him. He realizes this answer isn't working.)

But the next time:

HER: "Are you a player?"

HIM: "Is that what you want, a player?"

HER: "I'm looking for a man who's secure in who he is."

HIM: "Well then tonight's your lucky night."

She smiles and warms up. He learns that it's not his answer to her question as much as the attitude he communicates in the conversation that gets things moving forward.

Organic problem solving is about letting go of your prejudices and self-esteem concerns and seeing what is happening in front of you. It's knowing that there is always a solution. The biggest, most indestructible door still unlocks with the smallest of keys. This door will open for you if you're willing to look for the key instead of a reason to beat your head against it in futility.

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This technique is one of the most effective methods found to improve a person's ability to perform. It's widely used by athletes and martial artists to improve their ability to execute techniques and improve accuracy. You may have heard this technique described as "mental rehearsal," also. It's based on the premise that your mind does not know the difference between something you actually experience and something you vividly imagine. Studies have shown that athletes and other performers have used this technique extensively to improve their abilities just by imagining their performance in their thoughts.

It's also the best kind of preparation and training you can use for picking up and seducing women. (Or even just learning how to control your anxieties around being with women.)

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