What could possibly be worse

Fear serves many purposes. First of all, it gives you an indication that you're venturing into a realm where you're unfamiliar. It also tells you that you are on the edge of your assumed limitations, and this is an opportunity to grow.

Here's how to use Fear for your benefit:

Fear is really energy in disguise. Fear provides us with a jolt of natural energy that we can either ignore and lose (which is what happens when you avoid a situation you fear), or grab hold of it and ride it like a wild tiger.

Do you feel that charge in your brain? That rush of energy that accompanies that fear? That's the Tiger.

Remember, all men feel fear. The difference is that Alpha Men use it to their advantage and to push them forward rather than letting it hold them back.

The first Alpha Men who hunted the deadliest prey knew that there was a likely chance they'd get injured or even killed in the process of bringing down their next meal. They also knew that if they didn't try, they'd eventually die of hunger. But after they learned how to do it from their tribesmen, they went out and did it anyway, using that fear like a massive dose of drugs in their system. And the more they did it, the more they learned that the fear would still be there, but it wouldn't stop them; it would help them - if they used it right.

The biggest mistake with fear is that we don't usually act on our fears until we're forced to. And by that point we're so caught up in doing something, that it rarely lets us relax enough to be resourceful. We become detached from our actions. We think that since we were forced to do something, such as speak in front of a group, we aren't the ones doing it.

The truth is that every person does what they want to do. Even if it's just to avoid punishment.

If you drive the speed limit, it's because you want to obey the authority, not because the sign says so, or the police officer says so. The only thing stopping you from going faster is the press of your foot on the gas pedal.

If you hate your job but keep going in day after day after day, it's because you want to keep going in. Even if it's because you think you're doing it to support your family.

There are more options out there than we think. It's usually fear that blinds us to them. We assume that if one option appears painful, that we're better off not thinking

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about it. Maybe, you think, it's not so bad right where I am. And your path of rationalization begins.

Take your fear and use it for what it's there for - energy.

The next time you run into a situation where you know that fear is holding you back, stop and consider the situation. If the possible penalty is anything less than death, why are you scared of it?

If it's just not a smart idea, like walking through a dangerous part of town late at night, then you have reason for fear. Fear is telling you that you're taking an unnecessary risk, and maybe you should listen to it.

On the other hand, if it's anything else that does not pose serious physical harm to you, you need to understand that fear is just telling you that you're running into a new situation that you aren't prepared for. And the only way to handle it is to ignore the fear and do it anyway.

Are you afraid to go talk to a woman?

Here's what the Beta Guy thinks - sometimes without even hearing the words in his head:

"She's cute, and I'd really like to meet her. But what if she doesn't want to talk to me? What if she's not interested in me? What if she's got a boyfriend already? What if I can't get her number?"

The Alpha Man thinks:

"She's cute and I'd really like to meet her. She'd love to talk to me and see what a great guy I am. If she doesn't get to meet me, she's going to really miss out. And if she's not interested, I'll know that she's not the one I was looking for. If I don't at least try, I'll never know, and neither will she. What is there to lose except a few minutes? Here goes."

In reality, the Alpha Man just feels a tingle of fear, but he just takes it and plugs it into his brain to charge up the circuits and give him a jolt of energy. It stops being fear and turns into excitement.

Just like that. If he stops to consider the possible "penalties" of this action, he knows he'd just sit in paralysis, unable to move. Before any negative thoughts can come up to block him, he just jumps in.

The faster you act in these situations, the better.

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"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me.

And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."

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