Introduction

What's the one thing holding you back from meeting more members of the opposite sex Is it that you don't know what to say Are you self-conscious Are you worried that they'll reject you If you answered yes to all three questions, you may be shy. Shyness is one of the biggest barriers to achieving the kind of dating life you dream of. Guys want to approach girls but can't get up the courage to do so. Girls want to talk back to cute guys but find themselves tongue-tied and embarrassed at the...

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I recommend that you spend some time observing the person before you approach them and see if you can pick up on what they're thinking. This can often give you a clue into an ideal first line. For example, if they're laughing with their friends, a good first line might be, I just to come over here to see what the joke was. You gals guy look like you're having a really good time If they're staring out the window, you might come up beside the person and stare in the same direction and ask, So is...

Table of Contents

Part One Understanding Shyness 2 Being Shy Doesn't Mean You Have Low Self-Esteem 4 Being Shy Doesn't Mean You Don't Like People 5 3. How Shy People are Perceived 6 Your Shyness Makes Others Shy 8 Talking to Attractive Women or Studly Men 21 Basic Exercises for Overcoming Shyness Advanced Exercises for Overcoming Shyness Men's Top Ten Tips for Getting Over Shyness Women's Top Ten Tips for Getting Over Shyness Don't Look Like You're Looking for Someone

Advanced Exercises for Overcomina Shyness

Start conversations with strangers who don't intimidate you people in line with you at the supermarket, people in parks, waitresses, and secretaries. Whenever you want to practice, go out and find someone to talk to. Watch what other people talk about. Notice things around you. Make comments, ask questions. 2. As you become more comfortable, start conversations with people who intimidate you a bit more, like really good-looking men and women. 3. Now that you're pretty comfortable with other...