Romance

Boyfriend Destroyer patterns

You're sort of seeing someone As you're only sort of seeing that image of him in your mind, notice what happens as that image gets smaller and darker only as fast as an image of you and me being together having lots of fun gets big and brighter right there in its place. Now as you look at that picture right there, doesn't it seem like something you really want. Oh yea, in fact, doesn't it seem like something that's already happened and there's no point resisting it cause it's too late to do...

How to Lay Girls Guide

General 3s Be the Alpha Dominant Do my looks The Iranian from Nice guys vs Good traits to have develop to be a successful It all comes down to Women want good sex and Should you express or contain your sexual Wanna play the dating game Um let's The rules with your Getting On confidence and getting started with approaching Casual meetings vs At a Just say Talk to girls How to initiate a Talking to her echoing Fluff The don'ts of fluff Reading body Kinaesthetics aka kino - have kino with your...

Rolling Stone article about Speed Seduction

By Eric Hedegaad in the 3 5 98 Rolling Stone .Meanwhile, a few blocks away, on University Avenue, a group of guys spread themselves out and slipped into coffee bars, restaurants, bookstores, furniture shops and fancy fragrance emporiums. They called one another brother and went by names like Brother Kamal, Brother ESR, Brother Orion, Brother Vijay and Brother 007. They were laughing, whispering and taking long, appraising looks at all the pretty young Stanford girls. Around midnight, Brother...

The Door pattern

This one is the bad boy of all patterns. Anyone who has studied SS and NLP and has come into contact with the Door pattern, has found it to be evil and cruel, playing on the fears and deep insecurities of women. To give you an idea of how bad this pattern actually is - even Ross Jeffries himself has denounced this pattern and says that he does NOT encourage anyone to use it. So as always with stuff like that for educational purpose only ) The Door pattern originated by Alex Domnikov. Mindlist...

Refining the close

(originally suggested by Mystery) When you do the close, don't just trade numbers, accompany it with a humorous But when I call you, I don't want you to answer Huh Who Ah. its you. ee so. howzit going., I want you to act really enthusiastic and happy, like Oh, you called God I'm so glad , ok Is that a deal ) This ends the close on a very light, friendly and positive note plus automatically kick-starts the phone call on that very same note ) Additionally you can end the phone call in the same...

Pace and lead

An example of verbal pacing and demonstrating understanding to increase rapport (see Mirroring for an explanation and examples of physical pacing). Speed Seduction newsletter, Ross Jeffries VERBALLY PACE THE ONGOING SITUATION - I cannot emphasize enough the power of this VERY important rule. Basically, what it means is to verbally describe and therefore ACKNOWLEDGE the situation and reality that she finds herself in with you. Let's say you're a lucky s.o.b., and, like me, you live right by a...

You look stunning approach

One of the best approaches I've ever used for meeting women is just to be incredibly direct, but also VERY low key. This combination exerts an almost HYPNOTIC fascination. So, for example, if I spot a woman I find attractive, in a low-key, but direct way, I'll walk up to her and Excuse me (you're not really excusing yourself for making her feel really-really good in just a moment, you're giving her a command to stop whatever she's doing and pay attention to you, you can alternatively use...

Delivering patterns general rules

It is important to be as vague as possible in your patterns. For one thing, vagueness for a woman doesn't sound incoherent or obscure like it does to the rational and matter-of-fact mind of a man. For a girl, vague equals romantic, thrilling, mysterious and intriguing. For another thing, being vague in your patterns lets her more easily link the feelings you describe with her own experiences or dreams. The more vague, the better Doesn't patterning sound unnatural (Ross Jeffries )...

Anchoring explained

A more advanced aspect of patterning is anchoring. Anchoring is an application of Pavlov's reflex in NLP (and also in Speed Seduction). A Pavlov's reflex is a conditioned reflex first explored and introduced by Russian scientist Pavlov. The core of his experiment was as follows -he rang a bell, gave a dog some food, the dog saw and smelled the food and started salivating. After a few times of repeating the process of ringing a bell, offering food and getting the dog to salivate, he eliminated...

Understanding 8 Do NOT Lust For Results

Speed Seduction is not just about how you speak it is a different way of perceiving the world. As such, it takes time to approach mastery. That means the key is to immerse yourself in these learnings. Practice all the time, every day, on as many people as you can. If you reserve your practice ONLY for beautiful women, you make beautiful women the cause of your skill, and THAT is a fatal error No, I'm not suggestion you get some disgusting ugly monster hot and horny. I am suggesting that using...

Neghits expansion pack

Use negs with 9s and preferably 10s only. Don't use a neg on a 7 or 8. The 7s and 8s know what they are - cute, sweet, pretty etc - but not drop-dead beautiful. Their confidence in their own beauty is only fairly high and it could easily be destroyed by a neg. Shaking their confidence too much and making them self-conscious could quite easily make them hate you instead of wanting to be down with you - and that's not what you want ) The 9s and 10s however KNOW they are beautiful - they've been...

Use sexual stories to get her horny

Use personal experience or fantasy stories to get her horny. ASF Never use stories DIRECTLY INVOLVING the girl you're with. QUOTE about what you did to other chicks or what you want to do to other chicks or ask her about what she has done or would like to do with other guys. You can use this even in every-day discussions by elaborating at the right time and in the right direction ) A variation get her in a private place, and feed her with fantasies, increasingly sexual, in a hypnotic way, until...

Incredible Connection patterns

Pattern 1 - a classic ) Also an important note, why patterns might not work on some women. This is the most classic and legendary of SS patterns. Partly because it is one of the oldest and partly because it is the most appropriate to use as your first pattern after having had some fluff talk with the girl you just met. A very important note on the IC pattern (and even patterning in general) - there are women that are NOT into the feelings connections stuff at all. So what's wrong with them...

The three major lines in the hand

Hand Know Long Life

When you look into your hands, you will see the three major lines of heart, head, and life (see picture). The heart line shows how we feel, the head line how we think and the life line how much physical vitality we have to sustain the body. The motivation to live is not shown by the life line alone. One's inspiration for life could be arising out of a strong emotional need to connect with someone, reflected by an intense heart line. The desire to live could be motivated by an urge for...

On confidence and getting started with approaching girls

ASF Try approaching every HB you see and say, Hi. Are you the sort of person I should get to know better If she says Yes , then ask Why Put the focus of the conversation on what she has to offer you. Do this in a matter of fact way, like you were saying Hi. Your shoe's untied. In fact, if you can't yet muster the boldness to confront HB's, then just tell them it looks like they're about to lose a heel on their shoe and WALK AWAY. Try it. It works. Don't misunderstand the addressing a girl and...

Wanna play the dating game Um lets see

Actually, dates should be an exclusive reward and privilege of those girls that you're already sleeping with. But if you still decide to take her on a date before that don't make it a date, say that you'll just get together. And make sure she pays for her coffee drink food. If she refuses, eject her - she was only interested in a chump who would buy her food drinks. You can however suggest paying for rounds of beer coffee in turns - for example, you'll pay for the first round, she the second...

Our World routine

The Our World routine, contributed by Maniac High (http www.pickupguide.com), constructs an imaginary world for both you and the girl, where the two of you can feel happy, comfortable and relaxed, and free to do anything you wish irrespective of the rules and norms of society or the attitutudes of other people, because quite simply - you are now in a different world, a world without any outside influences, a world where normal rules don't apply, a world for just the two of you. You are in our...

Alienating the boyfriend in her mind

We all know that not one person in this world is perfect. If you begin talking about relationships, feel free to discuss the little things that bother people in a relationship in general and later get her to give you examples of some of the things that bug her about her boyfriend or husband. At first she may not say much, but if she can relate to the day to day problems in a relationship that you describe in general the more likely it is for her to agree with you on some points. When she does...

Eliciting values explained

The point of eliciting values is to find out what she wants in and from a man and then turn into that man of her dreams by providing her with it. But don't be fooled, if she says she wants her man to be tall and financially secure, you're not going to the doctor to get implants for your legs or rob a bank. What she gave you were means values, which means that tall in itself does nothing for her - what matters to her is how a tall man by her side makes her feel. And this is the key...

Pattern I

Kevin Kupal, mindlist Basically, it's a 3-step procedure. 1. Ask her about anything she really really loves to eat 2. Describe the sensation of eating that food and amplify with gustatory gusto 3. Link it to your dick using a dick point. Me Hey Alicia. What do you love to eat Something that really makes you salivate just by thinking of it Alicia Oh I love fresh ripe mangoes from Hawaii strawberries from Ohio oh yes Me Ripe mangoes huh Mmmm that's yummy. I don't know if you can IMAGINE SUCKING...

Use a gimmick to get going

Ross Jeffries Are you into metaphysics Do you believe in astrology Astral projection ESP Tarot cards What's that you say You think it's all a bunch of crap Well, so do I. But guess what Women eat this stuff up like candy, so I PRETEND to be interested in all of it Of course, my favourite gimmick of gimmicks is analysing a chick's handwriting. Do I have any training in this field Have I even read a single book on the subject OF COURSE NOT But of course, just by coincidence, we carry the good old...

Quoting and stacking realities

Quoting has you say things through someone's else mouth - has you quoting somebody. This has the advantage of making the more timid or insecure girls feel more at ease with the content you are about to deliver and thus much more receptive to your suggestive talk, as you are not talking about her neither yourself but a friend of yours (this is also a good tactic to use when delivering a harsher than usual content (see the articles about Sexual talk ). In order to understand what you are saying,...

Submodalities

Ross Jeffries How many people know what submodalities are The basic idea behind submodalities, is that people have locations for their internal mental imagery. That's when people make images on the inside of their mind, subjectively speaking, those images are located in different places. Let me give you an example. I'll give you an example. Come here, come on up here. Come up. What's your name Ross Have a seat here. Let me show you what I mean. Can you stop and think about someone who you...

Feeling Drawn patterns

Isn't it interesting how everyone is so different yet in so many ways we are all the same. I mean for example, I don't know what it is you do, when you decide for yourself that you really want to be with someone, and you know it's what you want, cause you find yourself imagining it you picture it in your mine and you look forward to it for all the right reasons. Reasons that are right to you because you know its what you want, but I think you know a person can find that when that's what's...

Want You pattern

After some initial fluff talk first look straight into her eyes and then discreetly whisper this pattern in her ear, allowing her to feel your warm breath on the side of her neck below her ears, squeezing her hands firmly yet ever so gently at the same time. Even if she will put up some resistance on the surface, you can bet that she is totally melting from the inside. I want you despite the fact that we've only known each other very shortly. I want us to be that loving couple walking barefoot...

Patterning over the phone

Ross Jeffries The phone is an incredible way to do patterns because women feel they aren't being observed and therefore can be a lot stronger in their responses. The consensus of using the phone as a seduction device is divided. Most agree, that if you lack any patterning skills, the phone is the kiss of death. Agree on a meeting, agree on her enthusiastic greeting of you once the two of you meet (see Closing), if she seems to want to have a chit-chat with you, talk to her a little using a low,...

If she has second thoughts

To help her decide, when she already wants it, you can try these pattern-like approaches Ross Jeffries We shouldn't do it, and we shouldn't enjoy so much. And please don't try to convince me, that you'd really want to do it. now. with me, this is the way I see it. I just talked to my friend, Tina, and she told me it is so unbelievably unfair, that men can make love to any woman they choose, but if a woman wants to express exercise and enjoy her sexual liberty, she is frowned upon. And I...

If she still refuses to give you her number

If she seems reluctant to give you her phone-number both after structuring an opportunity for her to offer her number and straight-out asking for it, whatever you do, don't push it. You need to remain polite and safe, like its no big deal if she doesn't want to give you her number. But that doesn't mean you'll have to write her off in your mind, here's a strategy of covert persistence by Johnny Shack (http showgirls.com.au) Remember when approaching a woman you have never met you must not be...

Talk to girls everywhere

If you look and feel great, then you won't have any trouble with this. If you see a girl, looking in the window of a store, waiting for a bus, sitting on a train, in the next aisle of a movie, shopping in a department store, and for any reason this girl appeals to you, strike up a conversation, start talking to her about anything that comes to mind. With more experience - close or *close right there, in the street. So set yourself a goal of talking to girls at the supermarket, laundromat, at a...

How to initiate a conversation

He following comes in handy, if truly NOTHING comes to mind after having applied the 3 s rule. It is of course more recommended, that you think this all through before having approached, just try to limit your thinking to preferably no more than 3 seconds ) No, I'm not an evangelist, its just that the more you wait, the bigger chances there are that she'll leave, someone else will join her for a conversation, you start sweating and eventually chicken out, circumstances change etc. ASF 1. Ask...

The questions game

I bet you always have a lot of interesting questions you'd like to ask a lady when you first meet her. Like What was your first kiss like , When did you have sex for the first time , How did you have your first orgasm , What makes you horny , Have you ever been caught masturbating etc, you get the idea (see Eliciting values - the questions for a list of some slightly more normal questions to ask). But you can't just go ahead and ask them - you'll come off as a complete insensitive jerk if you...

Pattern 7

Talking about past relationships is an excellent chance to talk about the subjects of falling and being in love. But there is an added bonus to it - you can talk about it referring to your former love interest and you together as we and you can talk about what that we felt describing it in the present tense. Like this The beginning was so beautiful its like everything around fades away and when we are looking into each other's eyes we can see each other's souls . Did you notice the ambiguity We...

The pivot theory

Pivot a chick that you take to a bar to in order to pick up other chicks. Use chicks who won't lay you but still want to see you, for this purpose. Basically, this works most chicks will find you more attractive and jealous when you are already with a chick than when are not. -- Maniac High (http www.pickupguide.com) > Hey, NYC, I was just wondering - how often when you spin this line do > you suddenly get the chick changing her mind and deciding to get happy > with you it's not to the...

David Shades reallife seduction

You have not heard from me in over 2 months. I have been very busy with my new found confidence to approach any woman anywhere with openers that actually work, since finishing Ross' basic home study course. I have also been spending most of my online time reading the SS list. There are some fantastic success stories there, especially from guys like Bishop. I have learned almost as much from the SS list as from the course. Here is my report for last week. As you will...

Reading the signs of a committed woman

For starters - a story which at first glance only seems to illustrate the mistake of judging a girl by her words and not her actions. But after a more careful inspection, even those seemingly rejecting words of her are actually a complementary sign to her actions (the sign being - I want you ). Ok boys and girls, learn from Mr. Happy's mistake so that you don't fall for it yourself. I met this chick online and got her to agree to meet me to play some pool. She was *really* hot. I also did a...

Female seducer turning straight girls into bi and lesbian

Today I am going throw into discussion, someone I know who is capable of what I consider, an ultimate seduction. A friend of one of my GF's is a (Japanese) lesbian sadist. Her (the Catwoman) sport, is to meet normal girls, get them to fall completely in love with her, and make them lesbians (or Bi's) so that she can shag them or do whatever else she wants to do to them. I consider this to be the ultimate seduction, as not only does she have to catch the chick, she has to make them lez too. I am...

Nightclubs vs other places to meet girls

Adapted from Ross Jeffries' newsletter) Bars, night-clubs and night spots Well, if you want to waste you're money, go ahead. Women in these places are far more uptight, far more likely to be very picky about who'll they'll talk to, and plus you'll probably have to spend some money to get in or stay in. Far better places to meet girls are libraries, parks, coffee-shops and various spots around college campuses. Should you still be a college student yourself and have access to college-premises -...

Dealing with rejection

Whatever you did to get rejected (a serious dumb-ass pick-up line, asking for a dance out of the blue, offering to buy a girl a drink, trying a close when all her signs were screaming I'm not interested etc), you should seriously reconsider you approaches. You are there to make the woman feel good, better than she's ever felt before in her life. Remember, the attitude to have when is Hmm, let's find out how much incredible and ticklish fun this woman can stand...

Falling in love vs being a player

The question of falling in love is tricky for everyone and the PUA is no exception. He is however less likely to develop a pathetic and desperate fixation commonly associated with falling in love. It can happen, but its effects (jealousy, depression etc) are far less severe. They just don't have any room to develop and aren't given enough time to reach their full potential. The word polyamorous has been coined which is probably the closest match to describing how a seducer is in love - he is...

Neghits explained

A 10 is there surrounded by friends. She has put on this BITCH act. Is she REALLY a bitch Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings - beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it. BUT - they need to have a standard with which to uphold when all these NOBODY guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, can I buy you a beer she WILL be annoyed by this. While the guy...