How to Small Talk Successfully with Women

Conversation Escalation Make Small Talk Sexy

In this ground-breaking program you'll learn the subtleties of conversation to pinpoint the specific problems that are ruining your chances with women. You'll learn how to draw people out to talk about more interesting topics in a more natural way instead dragging it out of them. And the mindset tricks so that you can Always be in the zone with women whenever you're talking to them. What's unique about this course is that its based on examples and application and is filled with hundred of little bite size game changers that you'll be able to see an immediate impact on your conversations tonight. Read more...

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How To Make Small Talk

Forget about having a whole conversation with someone the thought of making small talk, whether it's with a date, coworker or stranger, makes your palms sweat (in which case you want to avoid shaking the person's hand at all costs). And your inability to make small talk hinders your ability to approach people in the first place. Just think about all the possibilities this eliminates. When you're standing around with someone you're not that close to, you'd rather look at your feet, play with your nails, and daydream about the other night instead of forcing yourself to make small talk. But small talk can lead to big talk, which can lead to big people, and huge opportunities. With these tips, making small talk with anyone will no longer feel like pulling teeth (or at least won't make you feel like poking your own eyes out). The following are different scenarios and tips on how to keep the conversation going -- most tips can be used in every scenario.

Small talk

Small talk has gotten a bum rap (excuse the pun). Mistakenly linked with air-headedness, the assumption is that those who engage in small talk only chitchat about life's piddling moments without a concern for the deeper, burning issues underneath. Poppycock. Small talk is a necessary and important part of our social fabric. It's a way to adjust to one another, get comfortable, and find your conversational seat. Without small talk, we'd all be walking up to acquaintances and saying, Hi. How would you create peace in the Middle East or Nice to see you. My father is an alcoholic. Getting good at small talk, or at least comfortable with it in small doses, will hold you in good stead not only on a date, but in life as well. Small talk is just a means of chatting easily and comfortably about day-to-day issues without rancor or intensity. Big talk is about politics, religion, family, gun control, abortion, and whether chocolate should be a controlled substance.

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ASF Remember, chit chatting about clubs and work school is something she can do with anyone, but someone who can lead her into a state of arousal or at least romantic interest is hard to come by. You have to set yourself apart from the other guys by minimising the small talk and asking questions which can lead her into a romantic state.

Its Not What You Say Its HOW You Say It

Here's an example of how to use the conversation to get her interest in you started off right. On the first time you meet a woman, small talk is always what starts things off, and it is necessary for her to feel comfortable talking with you. But you want to take this small talk into exciting places as quickly as possible.

Mistake 2 Asking boring questions

If you want to shoot down your chance of moving past the handshake, then keep firing off the 'Top 20 Small Talk Questions to Ask When Meeting Someone New.' It works at Christmas parties and church picnics, but not when you are trying to get the phone number of the hottie in the coffee shop.

Picking a topic that they want to chat on

Research shows that women speak more words in a day than men, which accounts for why they find making small talk easier. Men, apparently, are more interested in facts and women in emotions. Below are common topics that you can research and use for both sexes to keep conversations flowing

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I'm not innocent either, I did it once and talked with a girl for three hours straight on the phone. After that I found myself with nothing to talk about when around her accept for small talk which got old really fast. You may be sure that that relationship fell apart fairly fast.

How to persuade and influence

Once you've identified your profile, you can learn to spot the style of anyone you're talking to, even in very speedy transactions . Look for clues about the way they work or the way your meeting was booked . Were they thorough and was it well planned or was it more on the hoof, with interruptions Do they like to make small talk at the start or get straight down to business How are

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Tom goes out to make a deposit at the ATM during his lunch hour. He sees an attractive woman and wonders if he should talk to her. She's talking with another gal, and Tom starts to feel the creeping fear of being shot down. He bolsters up a bit of courage, walks over and says Hello to her as he heads to the ATM, forcing himself to keep eye contact. She smiles and says Hi back, and keeps her eyes on him. Tom stops, walks up and starts some small talk with the two of them. After a minute, he tells them he has to leave, but would love to continue the conversation at a later date. He closes for her phone number, but she says she's engaged. However, her friend, Tina, is interested and offers Tom her phone number instead. Tom gladly takes it and heads off to the ATM machine.

Improve Your Communication Skills for Dating

The art of introducing yourself to others and creating small talk may come naturally for some, but most people confess to feeling shy, embarrassed and don't know where to start. Your inner ambitions are crying out for you to relate to others - just as other people are deeply interested to know you.

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Even if he were to point out that Emilio speaks almost no English, this would not dissuade the gathering crowd of eager women one whit. In fact, it would be a plus. There'd be no need for them to waste time on small talk, as they could do all their communicating non-verbally.

The key to knowing where to start is to understand the four levels of communication

Small Talk This is called small talk, and is used to size up the other person, and to determine the comfort zone between the two of you. There is no need to disclose any personal information with the other person at this stage, as this initial interaction assists you to determine how safe they are on your first meeting. This level of communication is slightly deeper than small talk in that you disclose facts about yourself without triggering topics of emotional interest. Once you have established that the other person is safe through small talk, and the two of you have found areas of common interest, you can build rapport by sharing your opinions and viewpoints.

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Shortly after I arrive home the phone rings. I can tell from the caller ID that it is her. We start out with small talk. Then she gets into a long discussion about how she was so unhappy at the previous company. I let it go only long enough to get some of her trance words (feel, creative, deep, understand) and values and then steered it in the direction of her jewelry creations. She delights in telling me all about the shows her jewelry has been in and how she has orders that she has to fill tonight. I then steer it in the direction of the poetry. When I get the chance, I say Would you like to hear one I have written She says Yes, but I warn you, I have not eaten dinner yet and I don't want to pass out on you if it is a really good poem. I say OK, just this one poem. Then I recite Bro Nick Forturne's Two Eyes. She says Wow, that was beautiful. I say You are so sweet, I am so glad you liked it. She says I did, I am only telling the truth. Then the discussion starts going in the wrong...

Building On What You Have

Now, you already make small talk whenever you go through the checkout line in a store. But most times, it's the cashier who initiates it. Let's examine why it's best for you to initiate the small talk when you can. Normal conversations consist of two people speaking in turn. If the other person Most women won't do this. They'll sometimes throw out some small talk to get the ball rolling but they expect you to keep the conversation going. That can be difficult for you because they went first, and therefore they're in the power position.

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In a typical feminine way if I had gone to the table where she was with her girlfriend - instead of taking control of the situation - she would have tried to have me involved in some kind of small talk. The purpose would have been to block me even more in my attempts at seduction in spite of the fact she was dying of the desire to have a real man.

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Once you master this skill with the grandmotherly types, gradually work your way down the age scale until you're comfortable making small talk with younger and more interesting cashiers and waitresses. There is one more caveat to remember while you're perfecting your skill at making small talk comfortably Keep it brief. There's an old show business adage that says Leave the audience wanting more and that's what you want to do here. You want to make a bit of small talk, and then move along before things become awkward. When shy men first get the hang of sparking a conversation, they often get caught up in the euphoria and try to keep the conversation going for an extended period.

The phases of a seduction

Establishing Initial contact (Opening and Small talk.) - Small talk. In the above example Hi is the opener and the phase where I start to talk about holidays with her is the small talk. In that phase we start a banal conversation about whatever theme. In this case we converse about Cape Town. It could be any other theme.

Seducing Women

Face it, on a most fundamental level, the reason why you are afraid to open your mouth and say something to a woman in a social situation is that you simply don't know exactly what to say. You understand that you have to say something that deviates from the ordinary run-of-the-mill type of small talk BS that we all engage in with friends and co-workers but what You know that the basis for seduction is speech -- that you have to talk to a woman in a certain precise sort of way in order to get her to feel or reciprocate some kind of attraction towards you, but just what are these magic words

The stress Watt

A stress wall is a barrier most people build to keep strangers from getting too close too soon. It keeps others at arm's length. Like small talk, the walls we construct to protect ourselves have gotten a bum rap. When built properly (out of movable and removable building blocks rather than cement), emotional walls serve a very handy purpose. They keep dashing, yet deadly, Attila the Huns from jabbing a spear into the center of your heart, or nine-headed Hydras from swimming across your emotional moat and slithering into your life. The notion that instant vulnerability is a desirable trait is dangerous, indeed. After all, we're not in Eden anymore.

Opposites attract

Styles right now, today I've described a profile of each type, but of course you'll identify more strongly with some of their qualities than others . For instance, you might be a Mover who can enjoy some amount of small talk, or an Analyst who likes to socialize now and again. Keeping the types in mind, create your own profile, making it as accurate as possible 2. Tailor your style. The second step is to spot the profile or type of person you want to be more effective with. Once you've done that, you need to plan out how to be complementary to their communication style and tailor your own accordingly

Making the Call

Once you re-establish your connection, and make small talk, you want to stick to your goals of this phone call. You need to ask her out on a date. When you ask her, be direct and enthusiastic. The best way to ask out a woman is to suggest an activity. Don't get her to commit to a time just yet - you want to see if she is okay with the idea first. Suggest going for a hike, or for coffee, and ask her when she would like to meet to do this. You don't want to be overbearing or bossy. Give the woman some control so she will have a better feeling about going out with you. Ask her how she would feel about meeting for coffee, or ask her if she would be interested in checking out a new restaurant in town for lunch on the weekend.

From The Mailbag

2) Pay attention, because if a woman is sending you semi-nude pictures online, etc. you might just want to skip the small talk and say hey, I have an idea- why don't we go back to my hotel room so I can show you my new stamp collection. If a woman is telegraphing I'm ready, take me then you probably just want to bypass the formalities and move on to more, shall we say, physical expressions of your teasing personality.

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