Looking at your motivation

Motivation is crucial for becoming more flirtatious. Motivation generally falls into two camps:

✓ People who are motivated towards something: These people take the risks because they want a relationship.

✓ People who are motivated away from failure: People in this camp won't approach anyone because they don't want to make a fool of themselves.

These types of motivation, either 'towards' or 'away', won't only be manifested in your flirting ability; they'll also be reflected in your attitudes towards money (you invest money because you want to make a return, or you save money because you don't want to risk losing it) and work (you aim for the job of your dreams or you stick with the job you've got and hope that a promotion eventually comes along).

To be able to flirt spontaneously, you need to work on changing your motivation. Every flirtation you have could lead 'towards' something great, from making a new friend to getting a date. On the 'away from' setting, it could be that every flirtation you have takes you one step further 'away from' loneliness.

Whichever way you look at it, motivation's necessary to get you flirting more.

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