They imagine this paradise where no one plays games and everyone loves each other for who they are. They keep telling me the way it should be, not the way it really is. They don't understand that our rational abilities to decide what relationships and goals we want have only developed in the last couple thousand years. For many millions of years of evolution, we were about as sophisticated as your garden-variety chipmunks when it came to mating behaviors. So don't believe for a minute that your basic responses to behavior are solely commanded by your rational mind. They are not. You have eons of evolution that dictate how successful you can be with women. These are concrete skills and attraction qualities that can be observed and learned, not left to chance.

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