Part II

Remember, Tease to Please works because it short-circuits her usual defense mechanisms to meeting 'strange' men. You see, every woman comes with her factory-installed defense mechanism against meeting new guys. When a guy approaches her, for any reason, she assumes you're picking up on her. You want a date, and then you want sex, and then she's got all this potential heartbreak to deal with. It's what she's gotten used to. All women eventually put up defenses to it, and they all have a standard...

The Point System

The most important part of dating for men is maintaining a good attitude, and a strong, positive attitude. It's one thing to not be bitter when you face rejection and your fears with women, but it's another to make sure that you're keeping up your posture. In short, your posture is your overall status level with a woman. Your posture can range from total supplicating wimp on the left end of the scale, and hardcore self-interested jerk on the far right. You are shooting for something a bit over...

Relaxed Confidence

One idea that has been beaten to death out there is that confidence is all you need to get more success with women. That if you act confident, you'll get women interested in you. Well, this is partly true, but for most of the guys out there, the truth is a bit more elusive. And a bit more complicated. When you lack confidence, as we all do in some way or another, you have to fight to keep up a good appearance. Sometimes it's a struggle, but we very often have to summon a great deal of energy...

State Of Mind And Dating

There's only one of two states you can be in with a woman dating a woman or not dating. And there're only two experiences you can have while in those two states security and insecurity. An insecure guy who's dating a woman will be very likely to fall under a 'spell' with her. She'll seem to be the light in his life. He'll find himself doing very un-manly things, like calling her all the time, leaving her notes, thinking about her non-stop. It's a crappy situation, because you feel helpless and...

Carlos Answers

As you know, as you tease and act a little cocky with women, you will inevitably drive up their attraction for you. But you also have to recognize when they are still playing the game with you, or if they're starting to react out of insecurity and they're just lashing back. A lack of respect can be distinguished simply by watching her attitude. Listen carefully to her tone of voice and pay attention to her stance. If she's acting sassy and bitchy, and her body language is closed (arms crossed,...

Review of The Dating Black Book by TokyoPUA Fast Seduction 101

I've often said that the reason we need advice on women at all is that our fathers didn't or couldn't take the time to teach us what we needed to know and our mothers taught us the wrong things . What I felt like while reading this book was that a combination of a martial arts sensei, a wise man, a great sales man, a seductionist, and finally dear old dad were all rolled into one giving me the kind of great advice I needed years and years ago. If you are the type of person who thinks better...