Success with Women

Relaxed Confidence

One idea that has been beaten to death out there is that confidence is all you need to get more success with women. That if you act confident, you'll get women interested in you. Well, this is partly true, but for most of the guys out there, the truth is a bit more elusive. And a bit more complicated. When you lack confidence, as we all do in some way or another, you have to fight to keep up a good appearance. Sometimes it's a struggle, but we very often have to summon a great deal of energy...

Carlos Answers

Whew That was close, dude I'm glad you sought out help before you wallowed too long in this unhealthy pool of delusion. Okay, here's the Bottom Line It sounds to me like she got together with him again (slept with him, had sex, the Horizontal Bop) and now she's regretting it. Hence, her comment about them not being able to be together. She's saying that the loving was good, but the drama was too much, even for her. (Yeah, I know she said, nothing happened, but if you believe that, I've got some...

State Of Mind And Dating

There's only one of two states you can be in with a woman dating a woman or not dating. And there're only two experiences you can have while in those two states security and insecurity. An insecure guy who's dating a woman will be very likely to fall under a 'spell' with her. She'll seem to be the light in his life. He'll find himself doing very un-manly things, like calling her all the time, leaving her notes, thinking about her non-stop. It's a crappy situation, because you feel helpless and...

The Victorious army wins first and then seeks battle The Defeated army battle first and then seeks victory

You must be. How do I know Because you are doing what most men will not do You are seeking to better your understanding of women and relationships. Think about it, women are given all the advantages over men in the area of dating and romance. They're brought up on a diet of gossip and socialization with their girlfriends and they learn how it all works. Women share information freely, they're collaborative, and they help each other out. Men We go at it all...

Hey I just wanted to let you know that you have a wonderful energy about you I just had to come over and say hello

Now what woman wouldn't respond to that For especially attractive women, you need to come on a bit differently, and it pays to use a combination of the negative-hit with the tease approach. A negative-hit is where you knock her down a notch to let her know you don't think she's as special as all the other wimpy guys treat her. I even recommend that when you get used to this technique, you use it exclusively on the hot women. When you're comfortable with it, it makes more impact. You say just...

Review of The Dating Black Book by TokyoPUA Fast Seduction 101

I've often said that the reason we need advice on women at all is that our fathers didn't or couldn't take the time to teach us what we needed to know and our mothers taught us the wrong things . What I felt like while reading this book was that a combination of a martial arts sensei, a wise man, a great sales man, a seductionist, and finally dear old dad were all rolled into one giving me the kind of great advice I needed years and years ago. If you are the type of person who thinks better...

The Point System

The most important part of dating for men is maintaining a good attitude, and a strong, positive attitude. It's one thing to not be bitter when you face rejection and your fears with women, but it's another to make sure that you're keeping up your posture. In short, your posture is your overall status level with a woman. Your posture can range from total supplicating wimp on the left end of the scale, and hardcore self-interested jerk on the far right. You are shooting for something a bit over...