Getting Started Understanding Relationships

Let me begin by saying that I believe that Darwin had a lot on the ball. Even if evolution isn't the primary determinant in the progress of a species, it sure as hell makes sense to me that those who adapt and learn how to thrive in an environment will survive and get to influence the next generation. There's no heresy there. Those who win the wars get to write the history. Those who live on, get to leave their legacy, in many different ways.

Women and men are different, but not so different that we can't understand each other. Our physical forms haven't had to evolve much over the years to accommodate survival. (Last I checked, I didn't have claws or night-vision.) But we have had to evolve our way of thinking. Our brains developed to facilitate reasoning on many levels, and the teaching we passed on would have to evolve as well. What we think about ourselves, our world, everything, evolved from previous ignorant assumptions. In short, society as well as parents taught our children the skills/beliefs they needed to survive. What works (i.e., gets results) is used.

I believe women are who they are and behave the way they do because of both biological and societal evolution. Women act from emotion, in most situations, and it's irrational. But, it can be understood, and that means that it's really an emotional logic. It makes sense in its own context. It's not guy logic; it's girl logic._______

Why does she keep asking me questions like "Am I a player?" Is she on to me? Man, I'll never understand women ...

Why does she keep asking me questions like "Am I a player?" Is she on to me? Man, I'll never understand women ...

Women are not like men in their thinking about sex and relationships. You need to accept this Truth. Too many men spend their entire lives trying to "figure out" women, or understand them based on their own thinking. You don't need to understand, only accept them as they are and take it from there. Once you observe female behavior and stop trying to put it into your terms can you move beyond the behaviors that have held you back.

The things I'm about to tell you will give structure to a concept that was once foreign to you: women, dating, and relationships. I will do this by teaching you techniques and styles of handling yourself that will enable you to develop your skills.

In the first stage of dating, the most unstable time, between first meeting a woman and your tenth date, you are in an extremely hazardous region. You need structure and method to navigate these treacherous waters.

Later, however, if you do want to evolve a relationship with a woman, you will find the freedom to open up, and progress to a more intimate bond. Some of what I will teach, though, must be used for as long as you stay with a woman, beyond marriage to the end of your days with her.

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