Grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change Courage to change the things I can and the Wisdom to know the difference

The fortunate (and unfortunate) part of this prayer is that the responsibility for the courage is still up to you. You have to be willing to go out and change those things to make a difference. No one else can do this for you.

I get in heated debates with many people (men and women) over these concepts, and it is usually because they are fighting these principles with their rational minds. They believe in the way things should be, not the way things really are.

- Relationships should be built on trust

- That's manipulation!

- You're tricking a woman into sex!

They imagine this paradise where no one plays games and everyone loves each other for who they are. They keep telling me the way it should be, not the way it really is. They don't understand that our rational abilities to decide what relationships and goals we want have only developed in the last couple thousand years.

For many millions of years of evolution, we were about as sophisticated as your average chimp when it came to mating behaviors. So don't believe for a minute that your basic responses to behavior are solely commanded by your rational mind. They are not. You have eons of evolution behind you that dictate how you attract and find a mate.

These are concrete skills and attraction qualities that can be observed and learned, not left to chance.

I've tried it all. The good and the bad. I've joined dating services, done the singles bars, online dating, placed personals, and attended speed-dating. I'm here to give you knowledge from experience - 20+ years of dating. I've made many mistakes, and I've had a lot of success. The truth is, I learned more from the failures, so I wrote this to save you some of that pain and give you all of the gain. I feel I have a gift of perception, to see the dynamics that evolve between men and women, and I want to spread this word so that men and women will both benefit.

Take what I give you and own it. Make it personal and authentic, memorize it, rewrite it, and then get to work. Consider this your dojo - a training room for the arena you're about to enter. This book will give you the finest martial arts moves on the block. Your Kung Fu will be the best.

When we're done, you're going to have knowledge that most men will glimpse but never understand. Remember the words of Goethe:

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